I get a lot of guys messaging me saying they would love to try crossdressing. This happens so much that I could probably start a dressing service here and become the richest girl in the city. The problem is I’m a bit lazy and I’d get bored dressing others up all the time.
However, the point here is that it’s one of my biggest annoyances about crossdressing – people just asking to borrow clothes because they “can’t keep them” at home or “didn’t think it would be a problem”.
Crossdressing can be expensive. Buying clothes and makeup ain’t cheap. It opened my eyes to what women have to spend just to be clothed and ready to leave home. It can be a barrier to entry for potential new crossdressers. But, there are now loads of online shops which offer discreet (ish) packages and cheap garments. There isn’t really an excuse for you not to have the basics for lets say under $100. Even with some half decent makeup and two outfits you wouldn’t spend more than $200. Most hobbies would cost you this much to start.
Also asking to borrow someone’s lingerie is a bit gross really (unless you’re super hot!). I don’t imagine these guys asking to borrow my things are going to get them dry cleaned and delivered back to me either.
If you think my shoes are cute or want to see what you look like blonde then I don’t mind helping out. Just don’t ask me to be your personal wardrobe and laundry service.
Meeting someone to dress up without a sexual implication is pretty cool, don’t ruin it by being cheap or shitty about buying clothes.