One thing I’ve noticed over the past couple of years is that a large number of ladyboys are now tops, or at least more open to trying it. When I first arrived this wasn’t the case, it was hard to find a ladyboy who wanted to fuck my ass, as cute as it was!
Why The Change?
There are many possible reasons why more ladyboys like to top now. Perhaps they are now more open to exploring their own sexual fantasies and realize they were missing out by only being a bottom. There is also the chance that being a ladyboy is now more acceptable and that has led to more ladyboys, some of which love to be girly but also still want their dick in a nice tight hole every so often! It may also be that there are so many guys, sissies and women here looking for a ladyboy partner (or just fun) and the ladyboys see they have to cater to the demand to be more versatile in bed.
Whatever the reason it certainly is a good time to be here in Thailand if you are looking for a top, or versatile, ladyboy partner.
Do All Ladyboys in Thailand Top?
For sure there are some ladyboys who won’t top. It’s true that some have either taken too many hormones, or just aren’t into fucking, that they literally can’t get hard. This means they will only be a bottom partner. However, there are many who say they are bottom but still get hard and enjoy oral both ways. I’ve been lucky that I’ve been the first bottom for around five ladyboys who previously had never tried it. In short, I’d say many are curious to try, perhaps they are shy about it though.
What I have found is that as ladyboys get older they become keener to top. Most of my ladyboy friends felt like this when they got close to 30. Many have told me that they really want to try top a woman too, it seems another desire which comes to some ladyboys as they age.
Top Only Ladyboys
There are a growing number of ladyboys who only top. You can read about one of my experiences here where I was dressed in lingerie and fucked by a top ladyboy. A lot of ladyboys are really open about wanting a submissive, bottom boyfriend (or sex partner) so don’t be surprised if the random ladyboy you meet wants to fuck you, and doesn’t want your cock anywhere near her hole.
It always seemed strange at first to me why someone would want to be feminine and cute then want to take the more masculine role in bed. However, after time here I’ve changed my opinion on sexual roles and seen that whatever you do in bed you can get pleasure. For sure I love to dress up al girly too but I still get strong urges to top like crazy. I guess ladyboys feel the same, they love penetrating someone but want to be girly at the same time.
How Can I Find a Ladyboy Top in Thailand?
Firstly, you should probably ask ladyboys who you have already met, perhaps they are just waiting for you to show your interest in being topped. After this, there’s the online options that I mentioned previously in this blog on meeting ladyboys online. Most of the sites have options to search by sexual role but ladyboys normally share their preferred roles in their profiles anyway.
However you search there are plenty of ladyboy tops in Thailand.